The most painful thing about love is not heartbreak. It’s longing
A series of broken-hearted experiences can be painful. Disappointment and betrayal hurt deeply, but they can be healed with time. However, the most painful thing is longing — yearning for something you care about and love deeply. Your heart is torn into pieces because you cannot see or be with the person you long for. Your heart is not broken, it is tortured by overwhelming love, and when it bursts, all the pain and suffering overflow into your soul. It feels like your life won’t matter anymore, and the most important thing is the longing, but you can’t meet your loved ones. You are consumed by the sorrow of waiting for who knows how long.I experience longing occasionally, and it tortures me more than a breakup or betrayal. Breaking up and betraying are endings, and your brain signals that it’s time for your relationship to close its chapter. You stop expecting. It’s time to move on, start building a new life and eventually make peace with the pain and memories that crawl back to you. When you are in a state of longing, you want to see your loved ones; you’re hopeful and eager to reunite with them finally. But at the same time, you may feel frustrated because of the uncertainty surrounding when you’ll be able to celebrate your love together.
You will do everything necessary to make it happen, and every obstacle can be handled by the faith you have. Someday, the time will come, and you will rejoice in every moment spent together.
Longing is like being stuck in love for so long and unable to get out or move on. The future is uncertain, but you rely on faith. You bravely take risks, work hard, and keep believing in love and relationship. You nurture the love you have and ensure that you keep growing the seeds of love, even in the most challenging times, resisting the temptation to give up and close this chapter. You choose to wait and work on this.
When you long and yearn for something, even though you know how much pain and sorrow it will bring, it is worth fighting for. You long for something deep, and the love is worth it. You have so much capacity to love and wait until the day comes when you finally reunite with your loved one. Longing is hard, but it’s worth it because something great doesn’t come easily. You need to work and make sacrifices to achieve greatness.
Keep longing, even though it can be difficult at times. And when you feel like you’re breaking down, remember that your heart isn’t falling apart — it’s expanding because of the immense love you’ve been holding onto all this time. Know that the time will come when you and your love will be reunited. And when that moment finally arrives, please remember that you embarked on this journey because you have an immense capacity for love.
You’ve done well, and you are worthy of this love.
Cheers.
